Remember the character Spiderman? He started off as a normal, average, guy. But when Peter Parker gets bitten by a spider and achieves “spidey senses”- he transforms into something much more.
In a way, I feel that a my trauma has given me a “spidey sense.” That ability, that sense, to see that my birth situation was not entirely right, was not entirely safe, was suspicious.
Had the trauma not occurred, my research, and feelings of advocacy on the topic of birth trauma would probably have been non-existent. Not because I would have felt that birth trauma is not important. But because, I would not have had the “spidey sense” to be in tune to the situation.
Often, we become passionate about something personal to us. It may be something that happened to us, or someone in our family. It may be something happening in our city, country, or world, that personally affects us. But until we are “bitten” we are unable to fully engage in the advocacy of change. The changing of things that are not quite right, not quite safe, things that are ‘suspicious.”
Peter Parker used his “spidey sense” to help others. That is the way I intend to use mine. 🙂
Thanks for reading,
Lauren
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